I’ve always wanted to be a prayer warrior, but have never felt like I qualify. I try to make it a point to actually pray for people if I ever tell them, “I’m praying for you.” I think, as Christians, we sometimes let that phrase become a standard way of letting people know we care about them…without actually following through with the promise. Much like: “Hey, how are you?” Most of the time we don’t really care how people are, nor do we respond with how we really feel when asked, ourselves. I know, in my life, “I’m praying for you” has often become one of these standard phrases to say to people. I know many people, though, who I can count on their prayers if they say they are going to pray for me. I try to make a point of saying at least one prayer for the person I’ve promised to pray…I just hope to get to the “prayer warrior” level someday. I want people to count on my prayers.
In, The Help, Aibileen is one of these people. Her friends ask her to pray for them because they think her prayers go straight to the ears of God…of course all of our prayers do. I think the difference in Aibileen’s prayers and my prayers is that Aibileen prays with all of her heart. She has a humble heart and wants God’s Will to be done. She also prays expecting.
I often get distracted when praying and don’t finish the prayer. Or, sometimes I may just not know what to pray. I’m working on these things though. I was really excited when we started a new Bible study at church called Lord, Teach me to Pray. Unfortunately, it’s a Kay Arthur study. She seems to be a wonderful lady and a very strong and passionate Christian…I just can’t relate to her so I’m not really digging the study. I know how to pray and I truly like praying. God’s word says to Pray without ceasing ~ 1 Thessalonians 5:17. I personally like the NIV translation: Pray continually. (Again, it’s a relation thing, because I rarely use the word “ceasing.”) I like to think I pray continually. When I was in the youth department, we talked about having a continuous conversation with God. I talk to Him all day. Instead of “counting to 10” in a frustrating moment, I talk to God. When I’m reminded of His magnificence, I thank Him. When I am sad, or mad, or bored, I don’t have any problem turning to Him for a little conversation. Praise God for that…my prayers just tend to be on the selfish side, thus making me fall short of “prayer warrior” status.
MercyMe has a song called “If I could Just Sit with You a While”. I like to spend a lot of my prayer time just sitting with God and being in His presence. I am in total awe of Him (If you have never heard that song or don’t have it on your iPod…get it! It’s helped me when I don’t know what to pray, when I’m sad, or just need a Heavenly Hug.)
I have found that when I make time for my conversation with the Lord, and ask things for other people, my prayers are more heart-felt and true. I feel like God is more willing to answer my prayers for other people than the same ole selfish prayers I throw at Him all the time.
I’m also so amazed (and why am I ever amazed by His power?) at the outcome when I pray expectantly and confidently. When I put my whole heart and faith in a prayer, I know it will be answered. This is where I struggle though. I tend to pray “expecting” a pair of Jimmy Choos (not really, but you get the idea) and other selfish, earthly prayers. 1 John 5:14-15 ~ This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to His Will, He hears us. And if we know that He hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of Him. The key here is “according to His Will”. I love being in His Will and am excited to see Him working in my life and using me for His Kingdom, but continuously praying for His Will gets tough. Obviously, I want what He wants for me…and I’ll be happier with it, but when it comes to asking for His Will to be done, no matter what my earthly will may be, takes faith. Perhaps I need to work on strengthening my faith (your prayers would be GREATLY appreciated). I posted a few weeks ago about praying for His Will to be done…no matter what and I think that still gets me. Satan knows what I want and knows that by making me dwell on those things, I am distancing myself from what God wants. I need to continue to have faith that God’s Will is enough. No matter what this earthly life throws at me…God is enough. He loves me enough. 1 John 2:17 ~ And the world and its desires are fading away, but the person who does God's will remains forever. Hallelujah for eternal life with God!
My prayer for us is that we will have enough faith in our Father to pray like Aibileen.